Tag: India

Returning to Bari after a year of nomadism on the road 

After a spontaneous whirlwind of a year that saw me spending extended periods in Vietnam, Cambodia, Laos, Thailand, the Philippines, Indonesia, Malaysia and traversing pretty much the entirety of India, I find myself back in Bari.  Specifically, the colourful quartiere of Madonnella, where I’ve called home for the past four years, after moving there as a sort-of life experiment from South London, towards the tail end of 2019.

Madonnella hugs Bari’s Lungomare (“seafront” – it’s the longest in Italy) and is a neighbourhood where you find an abundance of nonnas (both of the friendly and rather stern variety), clan foot soldiers, young working professionals and more recently, AirBnB guests all going about their lives simultaneously, yet also minding their own business.  

A snapshot of Bari life; late-summer 2023.

It’s also incredibly multicultural and on my tiny street – as well as a stray Englishman with distant Khasi (on his father’s side) and Mancunian roots (his mother’s side) – there are Chinese, Indians, Mauritians, as well as Italians.  One of my most memorable Madonnella experiences was one Sunday afternoon a few years ago, when the immigration police paid a visit to the street and decided to check that a few families’ paperwork was in order.  A number of the nonnas suddenly appeared on their balconies and leapt to their defence, shouting down to the police and telling them to leave them alone and move onto more important matters.  Over time, I’ve developed a real affection for daily life here and all of its idiosyncrasies. 

I was only meant to leave for one month.  I took off for Vietnam in mid-August last year, with the intention of returning in September but quickly became captivated by its culture, its food and the heady combination of hectic cities, tranquil rice paddy-dotted countryside and stunning bays and coastal vistas.  I fast-developed a taste for life on the road and the endless new experiences it offered, found that I was still able to do freelance work as an arts PR consultant remotely from the other side of the world, and one month turned into three, then six and eventually became an entire year.  

After Vietnam, I ventured into Cambodia, Thailand and Laos.  I still have a huge Khasi family on my grandmother’s side in Shillong in Meghalaya, North-East India (they are actually closer to parts of Myanmar, Thailand and Laos than some of ‘mainland’ India) and soon various cousins were suggesting that I tried to fit in a visit too. I arrived in late-October, was very generously offered the use of her vacant home by an Aunty who spends half of the year in the South of the country, and for the next three months set up in base in Shillong and went about my daily life there, almost as a quasi-local.  

1.) Sitting down for a bowl of local steamed clams, Huế, Vietnam. 2.) Mullick Ghat Flower Market, Kolkata. 3.) Paradise beaches and the best seafood curry, Mahabalipuram, Tamil Nadu. 4.) Exploring Bangkok’s canals. 5.) The Manila cityscape, the Philippines. 6.) Browsing for shadow puppets, Jalan Surabaya, Jakarta.

I was kindly looked after and made to feel welcome by my Indian family, became very well-acquainted with the Evening Club (an excellent live music venue run by Jeff Laloo, and in my opinion, one of the best grassroots platforms in all of India), started zipping around the lanes of Shillong and the surrounding areas, mainly using the Rapido scooter taxi service or the black-but-yellow-roofed Maruti 800 local cabs as my means of transport, attended two Khasi weddings and three funerals, and was able to do some digging into family history, in particular finding out that my grandmother’s father was in fact raised in India and not in Ireland, as we had been led to believe all of these years. 

The streets of Shillong, Meghalaya, including Police Bazar, its main shopping area. The Shillong side of the family (most people in this photo are descended from either my grandmother’s sisters or brothers).

I continued to use Shillong a base for the next few months as I explored as much of the rest of India as possible, from Puri to Amritsar, Rishikesh to Pondicherry, Jodphur to Mysore and Madurai to Delhi (and naturally, everywhere in-between).  I crammed in a lot during my time, had some of the most amazing experiences and delicious food and was even able to fit in a two-month sojourn to Thailand, the Philippines, Indonesia and Malaysia, whilst I waited for my Indian visa to renew.  

The trip wasn’t without its challenges though. A mysterious malaria-like illness gripped me late-last year, lingered for several months, caused me to lose my appetite and saw me lose two stone; I mislaid a debit card and had the other one cancelled by my bank’s fraud team; my first flight into Shillong from Hanoi was cancelled due to a cyclone; I suffered a sciatica flare-up in Kolkata and sustained permanent scars after coming off a scooter in Sidemen, Bali, there was an unsettling incident with a security guard in the Punjab, an argument with a rogue taxi driver in Varanasi that led to him dumping me and all of my luggage out of his car in the middle of the road, nearly causing me to miss my train and laughably, my suitcase was lost by the airline on the final homeward leg of my journey to Mangalore (luckily it was returned one day later).   

In the words of George Harrison though, all things must pass and whilst I sense that I will regularly have to resist the temptation to just pack up and run off back to Asia or head towards Latin America in the opposite direction, Bari is home.  As I reintegrate into the rhythm of daily Pugliese life, I’m not just returning; I’m rewriting. Fresh connections, new colleagues, potential bandmates, a reappreciation of the importance of community and various burgeoning creative projects signal a phase that’s brimming with potential.  A pipe dream that’s been in the ether for a while now, may also see Madonnella becoming a more permanent semi-base for years to come.  It’s all been an equal mix of the alluring and exhausting – in many respects…

However, September and October are always months of busyness, flux and change and things will settle down in November and December and then the next chapter become clearer.

Back in July 2011, I had one of my favourite trips-ever to Lisbon in Portugal with four of my oldest friends, Chris, Matty and Scott. We were young, naïve and probably rather irritating to share a room with but had a blast and attracted new friends like flies to honey. In our hostel dorm at Travellers House in the Baixa district, a young Canadian dude in his early-20s bunked in the same room as us for a couple of nights.  On the day he checked out to continue his journey, he shook our hands and urged us to “Enjoy your crazy life adventure guys”.  He must be in his 30s by now and probably has a very sensible career and a mortgage but that phrase has always stayed with me.  Here’s to be being grateful for the past but looking towards the future.  

“Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards” – 

Søren Kierkegaard

Read this (in many ways the prequel to this post): https://setyourownscene.com/?p=1895

Listen to this (‘Never Lose Your Sense of Wonder’, a little-known 2005 single by Yeti, a band fronted by John Hassall, bass player of The Libertines.  An excellent Byrds-esque jangle of a tune and a mantra to live your life by): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2NAso8g5rKk

Three days inside the strange world of the Osho International Ashram, Pune

A word about Pune (formerly ‘Poona’) in Maharashtra, India. Its two most famous former residents? Mahatma Gandhi and the new age spiritual ‘guru’ Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh, otherwise known as ‘Osho’.

I came to Pune three years ago and was struck by how affluent the city is, particularly its leafy Koregaong Park area. Designer boutiques, cafes serving up cocktails and European cuisine and numerous wellness spas and retreats line its streets; Pune has the likes of Google and Big Tech to thank for its transformation into one of India’s most-moneyed cities.

I had never heard of the late Osho or his Pune-based ashram when I visited in November 2019. However, after stumbling across the imposing entrance in Koregaong Park, I read up about his community of ‘sanyassins’, watched the Netflix documentary ‘Wild Wild Country’, and became suitably intrigued…

The entrance to Osho International, Pune (no photos are allowed after this point).

I spent three days at the Osho International ‘retreat’ whilst returning to Pune last week. Upon entry, you agree to a strict set of rules, leave your phone at reception and have to purchase maroon robes (worn during daylight hours) and white robes (worn after 6.30pm for the ‘Evening Meeting’.)

Most of each day’s programme is focused around a variety of meditation techniques, as well as talks (‘How to increase your awareness’), workshops (‘Unlocking creativity; our true calling’ ‘Zen archery’) and evening gatherings (‘Ecstatic dance’ and ‘Full moon celebration’). Some of the sessions were useful; the ‘nadabrahma’ meditation technique originating from Tibet, which uses humming to still the mind, particularly helped me to focus during the hour-long session. However, others bordered on pseudo-science or, just tedium.

The Osho International wardrobe… (it certainly made getting dressed in the morning easier)

Superficially, the retreat is lush, green and the vibe friendly and peaceful. The robes act as a leveller and remove any material comparison in terms of what people are wearing. The sight of the whole community ascending the steps to the giant pyramid housing the ‘Osho Auditorium’ at 6.30pm, with the sun going down, dressed in angelic white robes will live long in the memory. However, the ensuing Evening Meeting featuring explosive drums, ‘gibberish meditation’, synchronised shouts of “Osho!” and a long, meandering darshan from the man himself via a video from 1990 was not how I prefer to spend two hours of my evening. Funnily enough, some of my fellow disciples found his 40-minute monologue hilarious, howling with laughter as if they were at a Stewart Lee show. Perhaps once I am enlightened, I will understand.

It was something of a relief to leave the ashram on Wednesday night after the Evening Meeting, knowing I wouldn’t be returning the next day. Whilst, visiting Osho’s ashram was most definitely a good life experience, I like my freedom too much and don’t particularly like being told what to do, so ashram life was never going to be ideal. Meditating for an hour a day certainly has positive benefits too, but the daily programme of 6-7 hours was a push for me. Having said that, some people had been staying at the ashram for months so clearly something is working for them.  Also, the longer-term residents of the community also seemed to be more involved with the running of the retreat; helping to run the musical workshops and evening events or being tasked with metal-detecting the congregation as they arrived for sessions in the Osho Auditorium.

Whilst Osho was clearly a well-read, articulate man and a charismatic figurehead, it seems that his real talent lay in monetising spirituality and packaging it up for a Western audience to consume. Osho owned 93 Rolls Royces and had a penchant for luxury watches and diamanté hats so he clearly was not averse to the material things in life (although, to give him his dues, he did talk about music and nature being the closeness thing that many of us get to the “divine”).

A typical day’s programme at the ashram and one of Osho’s Rolls Royces.

On a different note, Mahatma Gandhi; another revered Indian leader, albeit of a contrasting ilk also spent time in Pune in the 1940s. He was imprisoned for two years in the Islamic / French-style Aga Khan Palace by the British as a result of his ‘Do or Die’ and ‘Quit India’ independence campaigns. His wife Kasturba Gandhi and secretary Mahadev Desai both passed away whilst imprisoned in the palace and Gandhi also carried out his 21-day-fast here. The ashes of all three are now contained in samadhis in the palace grounds and the building itself is today a museum dedicated to the independence struggle.

Aga Khan Palace, Pune.

The ongoing search for the perfect ‘curry’

Curry

Noun: “A dish of meat, vegetables, etc., cooked in an Indian-style sauce of hot-tasting spices and typically served with rice.”

Verb: “To prepare or flavour (food) with a sauce of hot-tasting spices.”

(definition from Oxford Languages)

Origins: “Curry is an anglicised form of the Tamil word ‘kari’ meaning ‘sauce’ or ‘relish for rice’ that uses the leaves of the curry tree (Murraya koenigii).  The word kari is also used in other Dravidian languages, namely in Malayalam, Kannada and Kodava with the meaning of ‘vegetables (or meat) of any kind (raw or boiled), curry’”.

(A Dravidian Etymological Dictionary)
Chicken patiala at the Dakshin Bar & Grill, Mumbai. Contender for the perfect curry? I think so…

As with so many other things in modern popular culture, the word ‘curry’ is a bastardised English umbrella term.  One that was created to describe all manner of distinctly different types of cuisine from the Indian subcontinent.  Or to quote food historian Lizzie Collingham and the author of the definitive tome ‘Curry: A Tale of Cooks and Conquerors’“most likely an English bastardisation of a Portuguese bastardisation of the Tamil world ‘kari’ – which was used to describe spices or seasoning.”  So, there you go.

In Britain, ‘curry’ grew vastly in popularity during the Victorian era and Queen Victoria was said to be a great lover of spiced dishes.  In fact, she even employed two Indian chefs to prepare her curried lunches especially.  The ‘classic’ British buffet dish and sandwich-filler; Coronation Chicken stems from this royal association after it was created for Queen Elizabeth II’s coronation banquet in 1953.  It is thought that it was directly inspired by the Jubilee Chicken dish which was created for George V’s silver jubilee in 1935 and also contained cold cuts of chicken, curry powder and mayonnaise.  Creative cookery at its most innovative. 

The number of ‘curry houses’ or more upmarket ‘Indian restaurants‘ started to increase in the 1950s and 1960s before reaching a peak in the 1970s.  Part of the success of these new curry houses was down to the fact that they still served alcohol well into the early hours of the morning at a time when most pubs would stop serving at 11pm.  In 1983, there were over 3,500 Indian restaurants open in the UK and today Bangladeshis still run approximately 85-90 percent of these eateries.  

The famous ‘Curry Mile’ of Indian restaurants. Rusholme, Manchester.

However, the food in the majority of Indian restaurants has been anglicised and tailored for British palates and you would struggle to find a lot of the dishes on the menu in India.  For example, Chicken Tikka Masala is thought to have been invented in Britain and directly derived from the Northern Indian dish Butter Chicken, whilst the British Indian variation of Vindaloo is much spicier than the original which was a key component of Goan cuisine and was created especially for curry houses, with the addition of potatoes and chilli peppers.  The Balti on the other hand makes no secret of its humble origins, being introduced to menus in Birmingham in the early 1970s (although it may have been inspired by Northern Pakistani cuisine). 

I’m going to contradict myself now and will talk about ‘curry’ or ‘curries’ for the rest of this article.  I personally find that there is nothing more satisfying to cook than a curry.  From softening the onions and garlic and then adding the spices to form the base, to browning the meat or adding vegetarian substitutes such as chickpeas or lentils, to adding tomatoes or stock and gently simmering the stew, the whole process is incredibly therapeutic.

The food we eat is intrinsically tied up with memories too.  Whenever we would visit my paternal grandmother who was half-Indian and raised in Meghalaya, a curry or dhal would inevitably be on the stove and the fragrant smell would hit you as soon as you walked into the house.  My dad was delighted when I started cooking and bringing home curries in Food Technology classes at school and we discovered that cardamom pods were a fine addition to a Chicken Madras – although there is some dispute about whether the dish actually originated in Madras (now Chennai) or once again, in the British curry houses of the 1960s.  My dad had rarely eaten cardamom pods as a youngster because it turned out that Grandma didn’t like them!  Although initially wary of hot food, my mum also became partial to milder curries after meeting my dad and she would often make tasty meals for us like the sweet and sour Hawaiian Chicken on a Friday or Saturday night – learning many of the recipes from her Indian mother-in-law. 

I remember experiencing a proper high-end Indian restaurant for the first time whilst studying in Cardiff too.  My sister Rachel and brother-in-law Stuart had visited me for the weekend in March 2006 and after a day of sinking pints and watching the Six Nations rugby in various pubs on the side roads off St Mary’s Street, they treated me to a slap-up meal at the city’s Spice Quarter, located on the site of the former Brain’s Brewery.  The uber-attentive service and having the table tended to by three or four waiters at any one time gave me an idea of what to expect when I eventually visited India some 13 years later.

Talking of university, there was also the much-loved but at times slightly questionable Kismet.  Located on the rough and ready Cardiff thoroughfare City Road, Kismet became the venue of choice for various friends’ birthday celebrations each year.  Unbelievably cheap even for a student’s budget, a main course would set you back in the region of £3.50, plus a pound for a naan or rice.  Once my friend Emily and I ordered a bottle of red wine to share and two arrived on our table.  We apologised and sent one back, only to be told that it was buy one, get one free on bottles of wine that evening.  Of course.  At £5 per bottle, we were not complaining.  Kismet also specialised in takeaway ‘doggy bags’ as their portions were rather on the large side.  I can still visualise my old housemate Rhys running into the restaurant’s kitchen after a poor waiter, convinced that he was about to throw his leftover food away and not into the prerequisite doggy bag.  How the bars or clubs we went to afterwards felt about having to contend with a cloakroom full of takeaway curry bags remains uncertain.  Kismet has since closed and is no longer a fixture of student life in Cardiff. 

The much-missed Kismet restaurant. City Road, Cardiff.

During the London years, going ‘for a curry’ became a regular part of post-work socialising.  I was once chuffed to find myself dining next to former Yardbirds guitarist and ‘Hi Ho Silver Lining’ singer Jeff Beck at the famous Gaylord Restaurant on Mortimer Street.  The restaurant opened its doors in 1966, was a one-time favourite of The Beatles and even in 2015 it was old-school in every detail – the food and service was excellent though.  Sadly Gaylord shut its doors in 2019 after 53 years of serving “upscale Mughlai cuisine” originating from North India.  

The former Gaylord Restaurant, Fitzrovia, London. A one-time favourite of The Beatles (and Jeff Beck).

Other notable London curry houses included the huge, raucous and noisy Pakistani eatery Tayyabs in Whitechapel; a place that was as much renowned for its beer as its food (you could order it by the crate if you were celebrating) and the quaint, charming Agra Restaurant on Whitfield Street in Fitzrovia.  Opened in 1954, the place is like stepping back in time and is still run by members of the same family today.  The Indian Veg (or Indian Veg Bhelpoori House in full) on Chapel Market in Islington specialised in no-frills, yet tasty all-you-can-eat vegetarian fare for £6.50 – its walls covered with pro-vegetarianism slogans and propaganda posters.  Its proximity to The Lexington venue made it an ideal pre-gig fuelling station of choice. 

Clockwise (from top left); 1.) The queue for Tayyabs in Whitechapel. 2.) The Agra Restaurant on Whitfield Street, London. 3.) The one-in-a-kind Indian Veg, Islington, London. 4.) The Indian Veg’s propaganda-laden interior.

Then there were the two restaurants that also offered rooms for the night as well; the Indian YMCA on Fitzroy Square (I worked around the corner from here for a couple of years so it became a favourite spot for lunch) and The India Club on The Strand.  Both are long-standing London institutions serving hearty and wallet-friendly Indian food.  Situated up an unassuming staircase at 143 Strand, the latter was launched in 1951 by The Indo League with the aim of “furthering Indo-British friendship in the post-independence era” and as with the Agra Restaurant, it is like stepping into a time capsule.  Given its history, I have often found myself wondering if my grandparents would have visited The India Club in the 1950s.  Let’s hope that all of these well-loved London institutions can survive the current hospitality industry crisis caused by the Covid-19 pandemic.

Clockwise (from top left); 1.) The bar at The India Club, 143 Strand, London. 2.) The India Club’s dining room – practically unchanged since 1951. 3.) The canteen at The Indian YMCA, Fitzroy Square, Central London.

On my trip to India at the end of 2019, it would be an understatement to say that I ate well.  However, I often didn’t eat at fancy places, instead preferring local recommendations or low-key, hidden-away gems.  The food I ate with my relatives in Shillong was delicious and included regional specialities such as Doh khleh (a sort-of salad made with parts of the pig’s head) and Doh sniang nei iong – pork cooked with sesame.  However, the food in Meghalaya was actually milder and not as spicy as in the rest of India.  In Kerala in the south, a lot of the dishes were lighter and more fragrant, perhaps as a result of using coconut oil rather than ghee, whereas in Goa fish and more Portuguese-influenced fare reigned supreme.  Mumbai and Pune were culinary melting pots, as with any other metropolis, whilst in Chennai there were numerous options when it came to street food, as well as fiery appetisers like the city’s signature Chicken 65 (invented by the Head Chef at the Buhari Hotel and allegedly containing 65 chillis per kilogramme of chicken).

Just a snapshot of some of the dishes I had the privilege of trying during my visit to India.

However, the distinction of being the tastiest dish I sampled was reserved for the Dakshin Bar & Kitchen; a simple Punjabi restaurant off a busy main road in the Fort district of Mumbai that had the Indian Super League playing on big screens on the wall.  I ordered Chicken Patiala one evening without thinking too much about it and it was one of the best things I ate during my time in India.  It was unusual too; a thin egg omelette prepared and then cooked in the highly-spiced rich, creamy chicken curry.  All washed down with an ice-cold Kingfisher, of course.  

Over these past 18 months both in India and now in Italy, some of my favourite discoveries have been places that I’ve stumbled upon by chance or that have been a word-of-mouth recommendation from a local.  The delicious Chicken Patiala at Dakshin was no exception.

To find out how to make the dish, check out the short video below courtesy of Chef Smita at Get Curried.  In my next post, I’ll be sharing a recipe of my own!