{"id":1802,"date":"2021-11-26T12:24:04","date_gmt":"2021-11-26T12:24:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/setyourownscene.com\/?p=1802"},"modified":"2021-11-26T12:41:53","modified_gmt":"2021-11-26T12:41:53","slug":"love-and-death-in-southern-italy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/setyourownscene.com\/?p=1802","title":{"rendered":"Love and Death (in Southern Italy)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">It was during the uncertain days of the first wave of the pandemic in 2020 that I began listening frequently to the song&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=ZkHzk07vb_w\"><em>\u2018Love and Death\u2019<\/em><\/a>&nbsp;by the Ghanaian highlife musician and bandleader Ebo Taylor.&nbsp;&nbsp;I first heard it on&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/programmes\/b01pp0xq\">Mary Anne Hobbs\u2019&nbsp;<em>BBC 6 Music<\/em>&nbsp;show<\/a>&nbsp;and she explained that Taylor had written it as a reaction to the breakdown of his first marriage.&nbsp;&nbsp;In the lyrics to&nbsp;<em>\u2018Love and Death\u2019<\/em>, Taylor compares the kiss of his former wife during their wedding ceremony to the&nbsp;<em>\u201ckiss of death\u201d<\/em>.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=19SLUVaOfCs\"><strong>Ebo Taylor \u2013&nbsp;<em>\u2018Love and Death\u2019<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-embed-handler wp-block-embed-embed-handler wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Ebo Taylor - Love And Death\" width=\"865\" height=\"649\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/19SLUVaOfCs?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Musically, it\u2019s an upbeat, yet bittersweet afrobeat number, combining wistful major seventh and minor seventh chords and a barbed lyric that preaches wisdom when it comes to matters of the heart with a buoyant-sounding horn section.&nbsp;&nbsp;Taylor originally recorded the song in 1980 for his album&nbsp;<em>\u2018Conflict\u2019<\/em>&nbsp;(you can hear the original&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=0AjC2o4yyhs\">here<\/a>) and then reworked it after collaborating with musicians from Berlin\u2019s&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.discogs.com\/artist\/735309-Afrobeat-Academy\">Afrobeat Academy<\/a>&nbsp;in 2010 for an album of the same name, released on Strut Records.&nbsp;&nbsp;As&nbsp;<em>\u2018Love and Death\u2019<\/em>&nbsp;reaches its crescendo, Taylor begins to switch between singing in English and a native Ghanaian language.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-_KA8jkv79w\">The story of&nbsp;<em>\u2018Love and Death\u2019<\/em>&nbsp;(courtesy of Strut Records)&nbsp;<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-embed-handler wp-block-embed-embed-handler wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Ebo Taylor - Love And Death - The Story Behind The Songs\" width=\"865\" height=\"487\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/-_KA8jkv79w?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It was around a similar period that I started taking notice of two particular (and related) traditions in Southern Italy when it came to recognising new life, as well as acknowledging the people who have recently departed from the world.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Firstly, when a new baby is born, friends and family of the newly-born child\u2019s parents will place a large bow or ribbon on the front door of their home; blue if it\u2019s a boy and pink for a girl (centuries-old Italian traditions are yet to become gender-fluid).&nbsp;&nbsp;Kids are widely-celebrated in Italy and unlike in Britain, it\u2019s completely normal to still see young children out late at night and dining with their families in restaurants or bars.&nbsp;&nbsp;Therefore, the birth of a baby is seen as a moment of great joy and one that that should be celebrated publicly and amongst friends and family, alike.&nbsp;&nbsp;The tradition of placing the ribbon above the door is so that the rest of the community can join in with the well-wishing too.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"865\" height=\"574\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/setyourownscene.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/A-child-is-born-a-blue-bow-decorates-the-entrance-door-of-a-house-in-Vicenza-signaling-that-a-baby-boy-has-been-borne-into-the-home.jpg?resize=865%2C574&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1805\" 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https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/setyourownscene.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/A-child-is-born-a-blue-bow-decorates-the-entrance-door-of-a-house-in-Vicenza-signaling-that-a-baby-boy-has-been-borne-into-the-home.jpg?w=1600&amp;ssl=1 1600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 865px) 100vw, 865px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\" style=\"font-size:10px;line-height:1\"><em>Photo courtesy of <a href=\"https:\/\/rossiwrites.com\">Rossi Writes<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Similarly, the Italians commemorate death in a very public way.&nbsp;&nbsp;When someone is unfortunate enough to pass away; a large white billboard-style poster announcing this news, along with the details of the funeral, will be put up somewhere prominent in their local community and sometimes even on the wall of their home, or place of work.&nbsp;&nbsp;Some of these posters feature an image of Jesus or the Madonna, or even the face of the deceased.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-2 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how the news would soon spread around the local area.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s safe to say that family is\u00a0<em>very important<\/em>\u00a0in Italy and many different generations will often live together under the one roof.\u00a0\u00a0In contrast to the UK and US where most teenagers can\u2019t wait to fly the parental nest aged 18, It\u2019s not unusual for young Italians to remain living in their familial home well into their late-20s or early-30s and I actually have heard of some Italians who stay at home or even\u00a0<em>move back home<\/em>\u00a0after having their children.\u00a0\u00a0If\u00a0<em>mamma<\/em>\u00a0and\u00a0<em>nonna<\/em> are still around then perhaps it makes sense to make use of their renowned hospitality and even more famous culinary skills.\u00a0\u00a0In a country where families remain close, emotions tend to be worn on the sleeve and so much of everyday life plays out publicly or in the street, it\u2019s not really surprising that birth and death are 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